It is true that the population needs to be controlled as it is expanding exponentially. There are two ways to firmly control the population which is by either breaking the constitution called marriage or control the tool or woman that is used to populate. In modern civilization, both have been tried but the second one got the most success. At first, to avoid arranged marriages which has a great success in creating an army of humans, the aspect of marrying a known individual has been portrayed as a better option. So, the young women found it more logical as it lifts the burden of gifts or dowry from their father’s shoulders and they latched onto that aspect as no arrange marriage, no dowry, no torture and freedom of speech over the man. However, normally some men are shy or introverts and some are more demanding or extroverts. It is natural for any woman to be attracted to potential leaders as they find the characteristics of the prince of her dreams in them. So, in order to get the right partner, they fall for the demanding one or extrovert one. As usual a demanding character is demanding for everything and so the women needed to portray themselves as more revealing to meet their demands. Shorter trends came into existence.
Normally, women are the ones who believe in Cinderella stories but in case of wives, men are pretty brute as they need someone who can not only please themselves but also please their parents. Thus, when women are looking for a kind hearted gentleman, then men are looking for a woman who is both educated to match with his family and also charming enough to please him. Sex is normally a natural thing that builds trust among men and women as a bond. Thus in order to seal the deal women gave in to the demands of men for sex and in order to seal the deal fast they started moving towards that step as soon as possible. The more revealing they became and the more men found it an advantage to try new prospects. Because the thing is both men and women are actually looking for a partner and nobody is willing to give it a slack or settle for 2nd best as it is easier to convince parents or elderly with a combination of beauty and talent, but younger generations with less experience always strive for better and if possible the best. Thus, that simple process led to the start of betrayal for both men and women as nobody feels they are getting the right partner.
Then came the dating app, college flirting to school flirting and sex came down to the stage of pedophile as now children crossing puberty are also engaged in that very battle of getting someone who knows her from the early stages of her life. But no matter how hard the game is ultimately due to the nature of today’s society, they both need to build an identity in the society. Thus, the process of sex with control or protection came into existence. When sex became certain with no chance of unwanted results or undesired outcome. Then it took the place of regularity and the prospect of finding a suitable marriage partner became a time tested ordeal where nobody was getting full marks.
Ultimately, the constitution of marriage became an unnecessary tool as lust can be fulfilled without any obligation to each other. When human moral boundary towards sex became irrelevant then moral boundary towards opposite sex also became irrelevant, same sex or polygamous sex was also tested as a form of pleasuring the male or female. Then bisexual became exposed as a very natural phenomenon and ultimately as same sex usually have more respect towards one another than the opposite sex due to their emotional similarities, same sex or gay partnering took its place among the society. However, it is definitely true that in order to test all aspects of lust polygamous sex remained for generations among the higher orders of the society which just got public in order to create a controlled population. But, till now no gay normally denies the fact that they haven’t tested both sexual orientations.
So, the normal process of controlling population led to the aspect of reducing arranged marriages that led to the fact of empowering women which created less responsible men as men are actually irresponsible in nature which only a woman can form into a responsible character and finally a world filled with empowered women with lesser men. Now, women are finding difficulty getting empowered men to form a strong marriage and are stressed with their work so much to look after their in-laws, children. So, a controlled population is created with a world filled with self-obsessed women which was their initial intention to remove from the nature of men.
Finally, a controlled population can definitely be created as all tools are in existence by following the old ways of engaging or letting the poor women know of their potential partner beforehand. Marriage can take its original form as required by physical standards of any human being but it can definitely lift a lot of burden from the poor souls of desperate young girls to please their parents.
