If this kid will not jump then who we will jump to
That is a question always asked when a mother says my son/ daughter is not sitting at one place , and it literary means a lot , the elder one is saying about their own life that they don’t have that energy , something power is also lost , like not a power in physical manner but power to be a important part of family , so what do we really want from life , we want different things at different age
Yes we want different things at different times in life
In childhood we enjoy so much , no responsibility, no thinking about what others will think is most important aspect of life so we be ourselves and enjoy the life , we learn, we do mistakes , don’t fell regret to say sorry , even if say sorry no one will laugh or taunt on you , and even if they do we don’t take it into consideration, ultimately we grow fast and enjoy the life .
Being adult responsibility may come or not but yes what others think is most important priority then your own will , wish or need and we lose the curve of growth normally. Some are overconfident sone under confident , if here the real path is choosen real strategy is planned then life may go like smoothly like a butter atleast your growth point of view if other factors don’t coincide and disturb it then we realise that childhood was good atleast we had a time to live freely enjoy it
Slowly 30 is reached and a stable phase comes with full of responsibility , for women a home , child. , to become a daughter in law from daughter , a mother from a daughter itself and to handle all things , to give priority to family first then she , for male to earn but not to spend for himself but for a family for a women who gives time to his parents , he will give a living amount and thing to her , also to kids and parents who once gave him, today is time to revert back and give what his parents gave him to his children
Thus a responsible one will come out , and the proof of it is being tired , bald not so cool not caring for look , not because he doesn’t like it just because now he is stable with a wife and family , and a search for soulmate is over finally
women may not go parlour with same frequency as first again a same reason
yes responsibility a great thing entered a life
Now the next phase elder where it’s time to leave a stage slowly and steadily
its important to know when to leave responsibility not just because you are old but because your kids are grown up they also need a responsibility tag in life if you will not leave how they will know what life is slowly and steadily be a back part not a front then be a adviser not a working lead , then you will enjoy
else because of age you may not be complete your things not they because they didn’t get a time to learn a responsibility
Thus what we want in life is to live to live happily with our own people
Its of no use to sit under 7 wonders of world with a grief, loneliness etc
What we want primarily is to do our basic things by ourselves
Then to be called with respect by others
And to live happily is what life want.
