CHEATING IS A CHOICE, STAYING FAITHFUL IS ALSO A CHOICE
You will always meet ladies who are more attractive than your woman, you will meet ladies with more vibes, you will meet more informed women, and you will meet women who act as though they care more than your woman.
Also as a woman, you will meet men who are far richer than your man, you will meet men with more attractive bodies than your man, you will meet men with more vibes, you will meet men who act more caring than your spouse, you will meet men who talks better than your man;
I mean men who know how to say sweet words, and crack jokes. Etc.
Note. People must always be better than others in some areas of life.
And sometimes the people we see as being better than our spouses may not even be what we feel they are. Note. People show you what they want you to see and most of the time it is not their true self they reveal outside.
Learn to appreciate your partner
Love your partner without any reservations.
Whenever you feel unsatisfied regarding any aspect your partner is not doing well, be willing enough to open up to him/her.
Be satisfied, please.
It takes commitment, self-control and discipline to stay faithful and believe me it is achievable.
Love is never enough, self-discipline and relentless commitment is very essential when it comes to relationship/marriage.
This generation doesn't understand.
Most men in this generation don't understand it's not about giving her the world, but it's actually about making her feel like she's a priority in yours.
It's about surprising her with a sweet text throughout the day to remind her you're thinking about her.
It's about coming home from work and asking about her day because you genuinely care about the answer.
It's about going to the refrigerator to get yourself a drink, and you get her one without even asking.
It's about driving down a backroad and you pull off to the side to pick her some beautiful wildflowers.
It's about cuddling on the couch in sweatpants and binge-watching your favourite show on Netflix together.
It's about taking her to her favourite restaurant unannounced.
It's about slow dancing with her in the rain to a song that was written by George Strait.
It's about calling her randomly and asking how she is doing because you care about her mental health.
It's about laying her favourite dress on the bed with a note that says "Put this on and be ready by 7 pm".
It's about knowing the smallest details about her, like the way she likes her coffee in the morning, her favourite smell, or what movies make her cry.
It's about going to a local ice cream parlour on a Saturday afternoon to talk about your life goals together over a couple of hot fudge sundaes.
Take my advice and remember...... it doesn't always have to cost much money, it just needs to catch her off guard.
