Solitude is the state or situation of being alone.
Solitude is a positive feeling, which helps us to be in a state of balance. We are happy with ourselves and enjoy our own company. Solitude allows us to get in touch with ourselves and reflect on our lives.
In realm of journeys of our life we encounter with fundamental concept of significance of both solitude and companionship.When we seek swift in brief voyages , the path beacons( A beacon is a light or a fire, usually on a hill or tower, which acts as a signal or a warning)allowing us to venture in unburden steps however when road ahead stretches long and arduous( requiring strenuous effort) allure of companionship call us to walk together united by a shared interest .Amidst this contemplation lies a question who accompanies us on Odyssey?(Odyssey meaning a long and eventful or adventurous journey or experience.)The question holds an importance that not all companies are beneficial, at times togetherness can prove burdensome .Thus we are reminded of a truth that in grand tapestry of existence we come alone likewise we shall depart in solitude.
To embark in art of being alone to find solace (comfort or consolation) in one's own company is a skill of great value.Only when we learn to cherish the moments of our solitude , the harmony of togetherness can only be realised.You see, as a human being we possess quality of only be without the compulsive need for action.Our consiousness grants us wisdom to act with purpose and discernment (the ability to judge well) setting us apart from the creatures driven solely by instinct. However when people gether ,dynamic shifts and current of compulsive action often surge.
Associations form where purpose guide collective or people bound by more distinct purpose.Alternatively in crowd the current of compulsion can sweep us away engulfing individual thought.To attain our full potential as human beings We must attain ability to sit in stillness to contemplate and simply be .contemplating meaning to view or consider with continued attention.This is an individual endeavour even when we unite as a plural "we".Each member in collective remain individual entity united in oneness of their being.Each of us is a unique masterpiece woven from threads of our experiences, beliefs and aspirations.It is in these moments of aloness we paint canvas of our existence with vivid colours shaping our identity. First we need to understand the essence of being alone ,a transformative path that leads to evolution.In the world bustling with interactions and connections ,being alone may seem counterintuitive.(counter-intuitive meaning
contrary to intuition or to common-sense expectation)
It is in this solitary moments we embark on voyage of self discovery.To be alone is not mere isolation but sacred comunion with self .It is choice to detach from clamour(Clamour meaning a loud and confused noise, especially that of people shouting) of external influences and plunge in to your own thoughts and emotions.Its here in sanctuary of solitude you find the mirror that reflects the true essence of existence. In embrace of solitude we encounter wisdom to perceive life's panorama with new clarity. For midst the noise of world we often lose sight of true purpose and direction .In stillness being alone noise receds allowing us to hear subtle whisper of our soul.
It is in crucible of solitude we can plant seeds of self reflection nurturing them with patience and compassion. As we water the garden of our thoughts and nurture the roots of our emotions we cultivate profound connection with our inner most selves.Thus the concept being alone invite us to explore the depth of our being. Uncover the essence that sets apart from as human beings .This act of being alone is not an escapism from reality but rather pilgrimage to core of our existence.
As we embark on this journey we begin to better understand our experiences , emotions and aspirations.With this experiences we understand nuances of our thoughts and feelings giving rise to deep insights.In the Solitude of self reflection we gain clarity like a calm lake reflecting brilliance of stars above.We begin to understand the patterns that governs our behaviour, the roots of our fears and aspirations that stir our souls .Through this process of introspection we unearth the seeds of growth that lie dormant within.It is the realisation that we are both sculptor and sculpture,the master of our destiny and the clay to be moulded.Thus true transformation of this path emerges as we embrace the process of self - improvement with patience and compassion.We cultivate the garden of our thoughts uprooting the weeds of self doubt , nurturing the blossom of self- love .It is in this moment of solitude symphony of self- development reaches its peak. Like a butterfly emerging from its cocoon, we shed the limitations of past we spread our wings towards the new horizon. In the fast paced modern world the idea of solitude often evokes discomfort .
Allure of constant external stimulation coupled with fear of confrontation with our inner most thoughts lead us to solace in distraction of outside world.
But why not find solace in ourselves? Simply being alone in present moment , feeling every detail of that moment . To be alone is to be brave for it demands facing ourselves without the armour of social rules and without the protection of external validations.It backons us to acknowledge our abilities and strength,our dreams and fears and series of emotions that shape our perception .It is amidst this silence we rediscover the wisdom that lies dormant within us.The wisdom to recognise true growth stem embracing our perception not trying to mask them.
The beauty of self acknowledgement is that our work is in progress forever evolving and evolving.In this journey we realise that it is not about seeking perfection but it is about seeking and nurturing the spark of divinity that resides within us.This spark buried within the layers of conditioning and societal expectations holds the key to unlock our true potential. Therefore being alone is not being lonely, it is an act of self -love and self- compassion.It is in this condition we become our own best friend , our own confident and our own cheer leader.We learn to become gentle with our self, forgiving the mistakes and celebrating our victories.We also find the courage to fight with shadow that lurk within us ,the insecurities,the doubts and the fears.These shadows like dark clouds in the sky obscure the brilliance of our authentic self. But as we shine the light of awareness we see that these are mere ilusions , transient and powerless in front of our inner strength .It is in embracing solitude we realise interconnectedness with the world.
We understand that our personal growth is intricately
intertwined with the growth of the collective.We nurture our individual selves ,we contribute to collective consciousness fostering the ripple effect of positive change in the world around us. Amidst the noise of world around us silence becomes a sacred pause, a moment of comunion with the universe.In this stillness we hear the echos of our own heart beats, whispers of our soul and universal rhymes that bind us all.We also find a space to dream and envision of life that aligns with our truest desire. We cast away limitations that are imposed by external expectations and embrace the boundless opportunities that lie before us
It is in this place of creation we realize that we hold the brush to paint the canvas of our destiny. As we cultivate the profound connection with our selves, we become more authentic in our interactions with others.For we engage in relationship from place of self awareness we form bonds that are built on honesty, empathy and respect .At first glance notion of being alone may seem odds with pursuit of fullfiling relationship .Afterall connection with others is very essence of human existence . Indeed it is but it is through the process of being alone that we unlock the door to genuine connections.We begin to cultivate emotional intelligence to understand and empathize with our own feelings and those of others. Emotional intelligence serve as a bridge to connect with hearts of others fostering genuine connections based on compassion and understanding.
When we understand our emotions and needs, we can articulate clearly and authentically to others .This creates honest exchange safe space for vulnerability and trust to flourish .So these moments we are alone serve as interlude the moments of reflection that enriches subsequent connection with others.It is in this pause we gain clarity to discern relationship that nourishes our souls and aligns with our values.
Because being alone gives us the discernment to recognise the relationship may not be serving our growth and well being . As we reach culmination of this profound exploration let us take on moment of wisdom that has unfurled before us .Far from being an act of isolation, being alone is a conscious choice to develop in depth of our being ,to understand who we really are.It is about embracing our individuality, cultivating self love and extending compassion to others. Through this journey of self- discovery we become beacons of inspiration , igniting positive transformation in life of those around us.So embrace the power of being alone as a sacred pilgrimage to your inner most understanding and loving your self .You unlock the truly deep understanding loving yourself and loving others.Remember it is this practice of being alone we are guided to self realisation and understanding deep interconnectedness of life.
Information compiled by:
Dr. Bhairavsinh Raol
