What do you do when a certain season doesn't change in your life, a season of winter that is so cold and harsh that it becomes hard to sustain? When Mentally you begin to crumble and you feel like you are loosing your sanity?
When you try hard to achieve something that you have been dreaming of and preparing for, for a long time and you don't succeed and what do you do when life mokes at you adding some additional Salt to your insult by taking someone so important from you whom you can't imagine your life without?
And what do you do when series of bad and inauspicious events continually take place just to remind you that it is not over yet?
Answers of all these questions are not known to me. I get senile when i muse over these complicated things. May be i am not so smart as to understand such matters.
Yet, i think this is life, not escaping the difficulty and accepting the challenge and getting over every hindrance that life puts forth.
I think life is a great teacher and sometimes as cruel as it looks it is not for it gives you sufficient enough time to prepare for that test it has for you.
Now it is upto you how you use your time that it has given to you? If you use your time doing relevant things then you may clear the ultimate test otherwise it it goes vice versa.
According to my observation i noticed a really ludicrous thing which is, we keep on complaining about our fate but we don't do anything in regards to fix the problem moreover spend the time in procastination which is the absolute reason that causes one for one's doom.
I have also observed that there are many people who do hard work and keep on grinding to achieve the best and in doing so they waste half of their lives yet they get nothing but disappointment in the form of achievement.
A man breaks when he does not get what he has been fighting for, for what he puts his life on the line and in return he gets nothing but failure.
Sure there must be something missing that causes one to meet with the undesired result but is it all that makes it hard for a man to move forward with confidence in the society?
Maybe there are various factors that play the key part in order to break one's moral and enthusiasm for doing what he actually wants to do and get desired outcome.
It could be the people of our society or our relatives or sometimes even our family members who most of the times try to impose their ideology, interests and dreams that they could not achieve and want us to be what they could not.
In the same way people in our society do not accept those things that they don't understand or they don't have any knowledge about. Such things are totally waste of time for them therefore if one does anything that is out of their understanding is considered as a fool who ultimately becomes the victim of their chiding or criticism and sometimes he is jeered at.
There is another thing that is the biggest hinderance that is the corruption. It has eaten so many good tallent who if had a proper chance then they could have done something great for themselves and for the country.
People should understand the feelings, hard work, emotions and all the determination that a person is putting into something to achieve therefore he should be respected and be motivated and given all the time that he needs to reach at the place where he wants to.
Life is not certain at any sector, it is full of ditches and snakes in it which makes it more difficult to rise through all sufferings and begin a fresh start. Only love and care of the loved once and motivation to wade through and supportive hand from the person who is trusted the most may help one to rise up again.
