Want to trick someone to make you more attractive? Yeah, this sounds like a click bait article but what if I tell you there are some psychological tricks that you can apply in your life that actually work and can help you in dire public situations? In this article we will share some of the well tested psychological tricks that will actually help you in uncomfortable situations.
When meeting someone for the first time, take notice of their eye colour
When you meet someone new for the first time, take notice of their eye colour. No you don’t need to make yourself creepy but actually look into their eye. This will make you look like you take interest and maintain the eye contact. It helps build trust and instil a feeling of comfort.
Fake it till you make it
If you are new to a place or a group of people or simply you are uncomfortable because you are shy, fake your confidence. When you do so your body, also feels equally confident and your body language changes as per your actions. It can make you more comfortable and confident and open up new avenues of conversation and companionship.
If you want your question answered, stay silent
Often times in situation and position of conflict, we feel that our questions or views are sidelined and ignored to the point of irksomeness. In such situation, the best thing you can do is stay silent and keep looking at the person in front of you with a straight gaze. The other person will often feel uncomfortable and instinctively give you an answer to your question or address your queries as is. It is a much better tactic and helps you better.
Make mistakes
When you want somebody else to open up to you, make mistakes or do things that make you look silly. Experts say that when you make foolish mistakes, others feel more warmth for you and instinctively take up on your good side. You can also open up conversations about your weaknesses to make a large group more friendlier and happy space.
Compliment everyone
When you compliment someone, you automatically crossover to their good side. Like someone’s shoes, or dress? Their hairstyle is popping? Compliment! Complimenting others makes you more relatable and friendly not to forget it also makes you look more confident. Research says that people, who spoke more positively, are more confident and are more attractive than the people who don’t. And complimenting people is the easily most positive thing you can do to make others feel more positive about them.
There are several psychological hacks out there but these are tried and tested. Test them out on yourself and see what difference they can make. Try out these simple hacks or psychological tricks to make people like you better and enjoy being more confident. By trying these hacks you can become more confident and also make the other people like you and boost their confidence too. See you in the next article. Bye!
