I had scooter ride today and learnt two lessons
Create social family:
I am born and raised in Village. We had social family there. All women in neighbourhood were chachis , men were chachas and their kids were siblings.
We used share kitchen ingredients very often. Taking ice from neighbours was like daily routine.
We used ask one another for help in the way as we were asking for help from own. 25 houses would make one home and one family.
I still remember 'when i would go neighbours' home and ask "chachi Chini de do " ( Aunt give me sugar) and "go take from kithchen" , chachi used to reply." I would take sugar and i would sometimes sit there to have lunch..
I always missed social family in City. It was very difficult to survive as no one here bothers much. People are busy in their own life. They don't talk more than wishing Hello and Hi.
I have been trying to create it finally.
Today's Bhabhi ( one who stays in opposite house of mine) came and asked me to help her in ignition of her scooter as she had not had any ride for 5 months so it didn't start with Ingnition Button(self)
This incident took me back to my village. It all depends how we build Relationships.
This dusehherra kill Your grudges and animosity and build social family.
We can build Social Family and social Home in cities too. Start creating bigger family and make each day festival.
Neighbours are first relatives.
#2 Revive old days
I loved riding bicycle in childhood then two wheeler followed by car. This is cycle which comes in everyone's life. I gave up riding two wheeler innyear 2008 and hardly got any chance to ride two wheeler later but bought bicycle in 2014. I started cycling to my office and till 2016 used bicycle with in city. After 2016 No two wheeler again.
In 2020 i got chance to ride two wheeler. When scooter started, i had it out for a small ride.
Believe me i felt internal happiness.
Riding scooter was like........ ( No words to explain)
I felt i am riding it 1st time.
Lesson: we should experience our good past sometimes. It re-energizes us.
Develop an Attitude of Gratitude and give Thanks for Everything that happens to you, knowing that Everystep Forward is a step toward achieving something *bigger and better* than your current situation.
*DECISION*
Once there was a man who was riding on the horse he owned going to another village. On the way he met a person who was lame and could walk at a slow pace. The lame person asked for help by asking him to ride together. *The person helped him by asking him to sit with him on the same horse.*
They both reached the other village. *Now the person who was lame started shouting – Help! Help! This person is taking away my horse.*
The owner of the horse was stunned. *People gathered and started believing the lame person because of sympathy.* Finally, they took both the people and the horse to the Judge.
The Judge asked the owner to walk along the horse and tie it to the nearby tree. Then he asked the lame person to go and untie and bring him back.
The judge recognized and asked the original owner to take away the horse. *People were surprised- How did the judge make the correct decision?* The judge replied – It was simple.
*When the original owner went to tie the horse, the horse happily went along. When the lame person went to untie and bring it back – it showed resistance while returning.*
*Friends, we need to observe people closely before making decisions : Make A difference
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