Happieness is always in you. Yet everyone is searching outside. But if you want happieness than you have to work hard to understand the happiness. Everyone wants happiness but really nobody is going in deep to search and understand the happiness.
First if you want to be happy please have habit of let go. Our attitude is very strange towards situation. Suppose our child get less marks, we got angry on the spot. We never stop to think the position of our child or we not even accepting the situation. We have to think our child position or mentality and than decide to react. If you accept your child marks than you never be unhappy.
Abraham lincon was great president of america. He was so humble and good to everyone that is why now till today all says he was best president of america.
Lincon was so friendly with his enemies also. Sombody told lincon that why you are not finish your enemy, when you have too much power ?. Lincon gave very beautiful answer to him that I am finishing my enemies by making them friends. As I am making them friends, enemies automatically finish. So this type of attitude if you have than nobody can make you unhappy.
When lincon became president,at that time one his collegue always abusing him and always talked very bad words for lincon. But on the very first day,he gave him good post in his cabinet. when lincon was asked why he gave good position to this person. Lincon told yet he is abusing me but he is very honest, so let me give him chance. So whenever lincon got opportunity to forgive anybody than he neve left chance.
So this must be the way of living happily.What we do we never forgive anybody. Nor we have passions to listen calmly to anybody.
When lincon was president, so many soldiers were runnig from battle to home. The rule for this type of soldier was very strick and lincon could give him very big punishments but all the time lincon remained calm and never punish this type of soldiers. So many times their collegue said why you are not punishing soldiers. Lincon always said what poor soldiers can do when god gives them coward legs. This type of behavior made lincon the great.
One day lincon wife told him that you give me list of six of my bad habits because tomorrow I have to attend one meeting with my all friends, where all lady will come and bring this types of notes with them. In meeting all lady will talk in genrel of their bad habits which their husband give them. Lincon told him that give me one day tomorrow I will give your list of your six bad habits. Lincon couldnot sleep well that night. On that night he took pen and notebook and wrote ten bad habits of his wife. When he woke up in the morning and told him to give six bad habits, at that time lincon gave him beautiful rose and told her that darling full night I couldn't sleep well, I thought and thought but I could not find a single bad habits of yours. His wife shocked she knows how cruel she was and always quarreling with lincon. When she went in the meeting, she show all lady brought there list of compaints from their husbands but when she told that my husband has no single complaint from my husband than everybody appreciated.
So friends, all we are always alwyas complaining complaing and complaining.if you want to be happy than stop stop and stop complaining. You will find extreme happiness. We have mentality that other will give me happiness a but please please please remove this idea from your mind that nobody never will give you happiness. Only your attitude towards the situation makes you happy......
To be cotinued....
