Fear is the most deadliest thing in human life. You can't enjoy the beautifil things which you have, if you are feared. If anyone will ask me that what should I do first than I strongly recomand that first of all finish the fear. And one more thing if I want to make a goal than first goal of my life is finish the fear. Money, power, name, fame all will come and go, but if you have all the things and if you have fear than it become useless. So one day when I set to make my life goal, at that time I have written that first of all I will finish my fear.
If you want to become fearless than you have to work hard,nobody can finish your fear. And most important thing is there, fear is not real thing, it is only your thoughts.
The one more reason when fear comes is the reaction against result of your work. Suppose you are working in one company and by any reason you have lost your job and you know that there was no mistake of yours and for some dirty politics you lost your job. Now your reaction is most most most important. If you become so nervous than fear will come from all side. If you tell your self that now I have lost everything than you will be ruined. At that time you have to do one most urgent thing is that, write your all things. And than decide what you have to do now. I strongly suggest to write your problem and than you will have clear way, what to do now and what not to do. First write whatever is happened to me is happened, now further what I have to do. And this is not my last chance in my life this is only temporary difficulty, now I will do more and more hard work and I will sure success. Remember one thing anything may happen never think the worst thing of future. This is the main reason of coming fear.so write in your book.
1. Anything happen worse in my life I will never never never think more worst thing will happen in my life.
2. When worse thing will happen I will always think this is my not last chance and I will do better and better in my life. Than fear will never be there.
Second thing whenever any worse thing is happened if you can laugh or if you can be happy than fear will never exist. I never forget the scene of movie black. When amitabh and raani mukhrjee were dancing even though raani mukherjee failed and they told, every one celebrate the success but we are celebrating the failure. This is the most important thing in life. If you can dance in your failure than who can give you fear.
Before making any other goal, make one goal that I will never never never upset. when anything worse happen to me I will not upset, on the contrary I will be happy and dance when failures comes. This is the most important thing to be learnt in your life.
If you not become most rich man or big man or famous man or you not become a minister or anything but if you can enjoy your failure than it is most important than anything.
If I am allowed to teach a person to make goal, I will teach all person to make a goal that first of all to be fearless. All others goals are less important than this. Suppose you become minister or may become big man, and if you are feared than it has no value at all.
So first make goal of be fearless and than make goal of others.
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