Fear is the enemy of mankind. Everybody wants to get out from fear. But if you want to get out from fear, you have to undersatnd it. Most of people thinks that fear comes from outside, and than they never try to conquer it. But the fact is fear is nothing but only it comes from you and comes from negative thoughts. Know one thing that you are, you are, and you are only responsible for your fear.
First things you have to do for finish the fear, do what you fear. Suppose you have to go to give interview. Now everybody is feared by giving interview. If you feared to go for interview and decide not to go for interview than how fear will be finished. Do you think that sombody will come and finish your fear. I have seen so many people delay their interview and postpone to go and thinks next time they will go. But next time fear will be increased more.
So don't delay,go on and by giving interview you will learn so many things and after face one you will have sure confidence. And after giving two or three you will be master.
In young age so many boys and girls have fear to propose the opponent but if you fear fear and fear than it will never work. Face to your opponent and you will have great experience if it will negative than o . k. But you will get experience and you will have courage more and more.
In marriege life we have seen so many husbands never tell his wife that what he actually want to do. Many time husaband wants help his father and mother but cause of fear only, they don't tell to their wife. And many times wife also have fear to tell her husband about so many things. If you don't tell your problems to your partner and always live in fear than nobody nobody can help you. Even god can't do anything for you. You have to, have to tell the thing what you want to do.
And once you show courage to tell than so many problems will be finished.
If anybody wants to learn the swimming than he has to go in water. Nobody can learn swimming on the bed. If he says I want to learn swim but i am feared of water and I will never go into the water than how he can learn. First thing is clear he has to go in the water. And after once he starts things will be more and more easy.
So many times we have meeting with big man. Before meeting him we are always feared that what he will say, how he behave, how can I face if he talks like this and that. This types of thusands of question we have in our mind. And so many times by fear only we delay and thinks not today after somedays I will go. so many times we postpone our work due to fear only. But remember face all prblem immediately than fear will not remain more.
In ancient day people had to face so many wild animals and at that time fear was natural. Now a days we don't have to face wild animals but only persons like us. So before meeting anybody,never fear, alwyays remember that they are man like us. I know every man is feared to meet a man who is superior than him. But you can speak to yourself see I am going to a man who is superior than me, but he is a man like me only and he is not wild animal and he will not kill me. Your mind is very tricky, if you tell your mind like this way, fear will go and remember this thing you have to tell your mind very strongly and if you don't get result than tell to your mind repedatly till you not belive it firmly. If you want to rid out of fear than this type of tricks you have to do with your mind otherwise you will never never become fearlessness.
So friends there are more many things which brings fear that we will see in next part.
