When one young boy and girl meets and decides to marry, they always feel and firmly believes that they are in love. And we can't say they are not in love, but the most important question after marriage or after some period where loves goes that nobody knows. At that time each and every person should think, think and think.
I have so many ideas how to search or go deep into this big problem of love
First of all, when a boy and girl meet, they must know each other well.is it necessary that when you meet a girl or boy for so many times and decide to marry each other, without thinking more.
Suppose a girl and boy in touch or say they are in love from last one year and they are meeting daily and they believe that now they should get marry. There is nothing wrong, in one year they must have understood each other well. They must do one practice which is most important for them. A boy and girl should write all the details and they should write their questions separately. Each and everything must be written.like that way.
1. Am I ready to marry with this person?
2. What is my expectation for him or her?
3. In any case if this person does not fulfill my expectations than what will be my reaction
4. What is my hobby?
5. If my hobby will not fulfill than what I will do.
6. If I will do this thing than what will be reaction of the opposite person
7.My parents are really imp for me but what is support I will get from my partner, that I will get clear answer from my partner and then I will marry.
8. If I will do that thing which partner doesn't want than I should know his or her reaction.
9.Upto what limit I can tolerate my partner and in every manner.
You can write more and more questions and should discussed with partner each point.
Just like so many questions anybody can write and must get proper and clear answer from the partner. And there must not be any shame or any hidden thing. Even in engaged marriage the full time has to be taken before getting marriage.
So, in that way if marriage will be made with all clarity and crystal-clear talk than the chance will be more of love will be remain.
Love is very nice and strange thing. Everybody feels he deserves loves. And god give him a special N.O.C. for love, that if he does anything yet he will get love. That is why everybody wants and ask and complaint that he is not getting love.
Every human is proud that he is special and he must get love even whatever he may do with anybody.
But love is not only one way that you will get and get even though you do anything whatever you may do. And think everybody want want and want love, but nobody gives love than from where love comes.
This is very simple logic of economic demand and supply rules. if you demand and demand only, and if there will be no supply than how love comes from.
And everybody should should and should remember that you are not specially made by god who will receive love and love. You have to do hard and sharp work with AWARENESS than you will receive love.
Anything is not free and never it will be. Then how the big and divine thing love will be free.
So friends be deserves for love give more and more love in each and every step and your behavior must be with AWARENESS which brings love from everything and everybody.
Remember only one thing that love never comes from sky
YOU HAVE TO EARN FROM YOUR HARD AND SHARP WORK WITH FULLY AWRENESS. THAT'S IT THAT'S IT THAT'S IT.
Sampoorana (the end)
