We read so many articles on women empowerment but at the end the one question is matter that they are really effective on people?
One of my friend met me yesterday. She was seems very sad and depressed. We were studied together and she was very ambitious and talented at that time. After completion of study she got married. Her in-laws didn't allow her to do work or any job. So she became housewife and started to feel very lonely in her free time because she was not used to that type of lifestyle before marriage.Her batchmates were growing in their career and she felt very law front of them. With lack of self respect the sorrow is clearly seems on her face!!
She was not first who is regretting but there are so many women like her who is facing this! Sometimes what happens, Many financially settled families don’t want working daughter-in-law so they don't choose that type of girl for their son. So, many girl's parents force them to leave a job so that they can marry her daughter in that type of family and in between all of this, the girl's dreams are killed. I agree that not every girl wants to work, and there is nothing wrong to being housewife, because as we all know most difficult job is being a housewife. But we should understand that every humans have different dreams. How right is this to refuse request of girl to do work because high class society's daughter-in-laws don't look good if they do job, I really find this thought very silly.
Do you think this is fair? young girl who is your daughter-in-law had seen dreams about future to being a 'helper of family' only? Women’s do many things for their family. They making capable to family members to fulfil their dreams by managing everything in home alone, so can't we also should thinks about her dreams too! No one likes dependency, Making women financially independent is our responsibility and it can be best gift for her in life because making her that capable to buy a gift is far better than giving a gift! If she will stand up with self respect and dignity in society then it will be our pride!!
Everyone have their own life, and making decisions about others life and force to follow them your decision is very wrong!
Sometimes we observe that some families allow women to do work but no one really try to make situation easy to her so that she can do work actually, because people expect that daughter-in-law have to handle home properly first, if she want to fulfil her dream then it is her matter, she can do but home should be first. This type of attitude of family breaks a women and she leave job herself. Our women are capable to manage work and home both, she just need our help and support. So let's think about others and make them happy!!
