You too
win!
Have courage in yourself…..
Have faith in yourself…..
Part-1
Birister Sharma
Dedicated to my loving parents
Contents
1. Love yourself
2. You’re born to win!
3. Keep your aim high!
4. Keep your dreams alive
5. Work hard
6. Keep your rays of hope alive
7. Keep your patience alive
8. Keep your willpower strong
9. Try again and again
10. Be positive
11. Be brave
I surrendered to you, O my Lord……
‘Om Namah Shivaya’
One Word
If you’ve strong will power, self-believe, courage, dedications, hard work, discipline, enthusiasm, hope and patience, then no force in the entire universe can stop you to win in your life. You can win anything in your life. Nothing is impossible for you. The word ‘Impossible’ turns into ‘I’m Possible’ for you. The goddess of success appears herself to bless you.
‘You Too Win’
Have courage in yourself…..
Have faith in yourself…..
1
Love Yourself
There is a great power in love. Without love, nobody can live. It is only love that binds everyone in one single code.
Love yourself.
Love your dear ones.
Love your friends.
Love your neighbours.
And love every living creature.
In order to get success in your life, first of all, you should love yourself. Since you want success in your life for yourself and for your family. If you love yourself, then you too love whatever you do in your life. And it leads you to the path of success. However, if you don’t love yourself, you can’t do anything in your life. And finally, it leads you towards your destruction.
Love is one of the most beautiful things in the entire universe. Love is the mother of everything. Its language is understood by every living creature of this world.
Anecdote:
Once upon a time, a rich man was living in a village. He loved his family and his people very dearly. He helped everyone who came to him. He was living a very happy and prosperous life with his family. However, with time he changed a lot. He started hating his family. He hated his friends. He hated everybody. He stopped helping people. He indulged himself in wine and drinks. He didn’t listen to his family and friends. Even he banished them from his life.
Time was passing by, and then one day, he found himself in the death bed. He was suffering from a terrible disease. Then, he realized his grave mistakes, but it was too late for him. He realised that if he would listen to his family and friends; his end wouldn’t arrive so early. He missed his family and friends. He missed their love and affections. He was dying all alone.
Always remember:
There is a great power in love.
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2
You’re Born to Win!
Why, you born in this world? To become weak? To lose everything? No, you’re not born to become weak. No, you’re not born to lose everything. You’re born to achieve something in this world. Born to win is your birthright.
You’re born to win.
You’re born to become strong.
You’re born to achieve something great.
You’re born to become successful.
You’re born to be a winner.
Life means challenges. Life means ups and downs. Life means happiness and sorrows. Life means success and failures. But these challenges, these ups and downs, this happiness and sorrows, these success and failures are always not permanent. You’ve to face them. You can’t escape from these things. This is the law of this mortal world.
But never run away from these hurdles and challenges of life like a coward. Always remember that you’re born to win. And when you dare to face these hurdles and challenges of life, then only you become a true winner and achieve something great in your life.
Anecdote:
The Mughal emperor, Humayun enthroned after the dead of his father, Babur. But his throne was full of nails and thorns. His brothers and relatives continuously revolted against him one after another. His entire reign was full of wars and revolts. He faced challenges after challenges. When he was successful in subduing his brothers and relatives, then another war was broke out between Sher Shah Shuri. Humayun was defeated in that war. He had to flee to another land with his family. He became a king without a kingdom. He had to spend many days and many years like a nomadic life.
After many years, he fought against Sher Shah Shuri to win his lost kingdom; however, he was defeated once again. Thereafter, He was defeated many times. But he never gave up. He was born to win.
Then in the final battle, he defeated Sher Shah Shuri and thrown out the Shur dynasty and re-established his Mughal kingdom.
Always remember:
You’re born to do something in this world.
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3
Keep Your Aim High
Always keep your aim high. Without an aim, you can’t do anything in your life. Without an aim, you can’t achieve in your life. A man without aim is like a bird without wings. It is only your high aim which guides you to reach in the top most position in your life. It guides you to your success. It leads you to your destiny. If you never aim high, you will never see the glimpses of life. You will see the darkness of life. Without a high aim, you will never rise up whenever you ever fall down in your life.
Aim High,
You’ve to touch the sky.
Aim high,
You’ve to reach the highest summit.
Aim High,
You’ve to shine like the star.
A man is always judged by his aim. A man who has high aim, he will always touch the zenith of his success. But a man who has low aim, he will always get the hard slap of his failure. A man with a high aim always sees the beauty of his life. But a man with a low aim always sees the ugliness of his life. A man always becomes the way he aimed in his life. His aim anchored him to the path of success or path of failure.
Anecdote:
There were two closed friends. The first friend has a high aim. He always wanted to do something great in his life. He lived with his high aim. On the other hand, the second friend has no aim. He didn’t want to do anything in his life. He just wanted to enjoy his life. So, he lived with fun and feast.
Both the friends studied in the same school and in the same class. The first friend studied well and he completed his education with flying colours and became a great scientist. And the second friend didn’t study anything; he just enjoyed his life in a fun and merry making and became a poor man.
Always remember:
A man without aim is like a bird without wings.
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4
Keep Your Dreams Alive
Always keep your dreams alive. Your dreams are the blue print of your success. Without a dream, you can’t live. Without dreams your life is meaningless. See your dreams every day. Think about your dreams every day. Live with your dreams every day. Then one day, you will see your dreams turn into reality. There is a great power in your dreams. Colour it. Paint it. Feel it. Act on it.
Always see big dreams,
See it with your open eyes,
Feel it with full consciousness,
Always think about it,
Always imagine it,
Always live with it,
Always keep it alive.
Always work for it.
One day, you’ll realize your dream into reality.
Anecdote:
In a small town, a small boy was living with his parents. He always dreamed of becoming a successful businessman when he would grow up. He belonged to a poor family. And there was no scope for him to become a successful businessman. His parents sent him to a good school with a lot of hope that when their son would grow up he would get some good job and solve their poor condition.
However, nothing happened like that. The boy’s mind was not in studies. His mind was always dreaming of becoming a successful businessman. So he used to sell small stuff instead of going to school. He remained absent in his class every day.
Then one day his parents knew everything about him. His parents were very upset with him. They lost hope on him. Everybody called him ‘hopeless boy’. But, nobody knew that he had already learned how to start a business.
When he grew up, he started his own business and fulfilled his dream to become a successful businessman.
Always remember:
Your dreams are the blue print of your success.
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5
Work Hard
Without hard work, you can’t achieve anything in your life. It is only your hard work that guaranteed you to get success in your life. With your hard work, you can convert a barren land into fertile land. Your hard works never go in vain. It will always give a fruitful result. But without hard work you can’t get anything in your life.
You’re hard work help you to get the hidden diamonds. You’re hard work fulfill all the dreams and wishes of your life. Without hard work even the gold mine is like the mound of sands. With your hard work even you can convert sandstone as valuable as a diamond.
Hard work guaranteed you success,
Hard work guaranteed you victory,
Hard work guaranteed you happiness,
Hard work guaranteed you prosperities.
Once you stop your hard works, your life will stop. Your life will become meaningless. Your world will become void. Never stop your hard works, because only your hard works keep you alive. If there is no work, there is no life and there is no existence.
Anecdote:
Once upon a time, an old man was living in a village. He had two sons. Both the sons were very lazy and never work anything. They always ran away from their work. Whenever the old man asked them to work in the field, they gave some excuses and lying idle. The old man was very worried about his two lazy sons.
The time was passing in the same fashion. There was no changed in the habits of both the sons.
One day, the old man passed away. Before he breathed his last, the old man told his two sons that he had hidden a pot of gold coins in the backyard of his land.
Both the sons were very happy. But both of them were lazy. They started pushing each other to dig the land. Time went on. Then the day arrived in their lives that they had nothing to eat and nothing to spend.
They were bound to do something. Then, they started digging the entire land nonstop. But they didn’t get any pot of gold coins. They thought that their father had cheated on them.
Both the brothers remained very upset. At that time, one of the villagers told them to sow seeds of crops in their land. They had no other alternatives. They did the same.
After a few months, they saw the golden shining crops in their land. Then they realized the hidden message of their father.
Always remember:
Your hard works never go in vain.
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6
Keep Your Rays of Hope Alive
Never lost your hope even if you’ve nothing left to you. Always keep the rays of your hope alive. Your hope keeps you shine in the dark night of life. It gives you new dawn. It gives you new strength. A life without hope is meaningless. If there is life, there is hope; and where there is no hope, there is no life. Never lose your hope no matter how much the tough circumstances knock in your life.
Keep your rays of hope alive.
Your hopes give you new ways.
Your hopes give you new dawn.
Your hopes give you a new smile.
Your hopes give you new life.
Your hopes give you new strength.
Your hopes give you new destination.
Keep your rays of hope alive.
Anecdote:
Once upon a time, a merchant went for a business tour through sea route. He was successfully completed his business dealing with the distant merchants. He was very happy and contented.
He was returning on the same sea route. However, in the middle of his journey, the ship was hit by the thunderstorms and drowned. All the in boarded passengers and the crew members including the captain of the ship died.
Luckily, the poor merchant was survived. When he woke up, he found himself on the strange island. There was no human soul in that strange island. He was the only human soul.
But he didn’t lose his hope. He stayed there and tried to find out to survive on that island. Every day he woke up early in the morning and waiting for any ship passing by from that island. But there was none.
He had to spend many years all alone in that strange island.
Then one day, he made a small craft and started his own sea voyage to his homeland.
However, in the middle of his journey, he met the same fate. The thunderstorms hit his small craft. He knew that he wouldn’t survive from that terrible thunderstorm.
But when he woke up he found himself inside the big ship which was sailing to his homeland.
Always remember:
Your hope keeps you shine in the dark night of life.
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7
Keep Your Patience Alive
If you’re working on something very hard, then it is obvious that you too expect some fruitful result out of it. You can’t predict when you get your desired result. But you’ve to wait for its time and again. This is the time when you’re tested for your patience. And if you ever fail to keep your patience, then you gets the heat of frustrations and you commit the blunder.
Sometimes you can’t get your desired result very soon. You’ve to wait again and again while maintaining your patience.
The taste of patience is the sweetest in the world. You’ve to wait again and again if you want to taste it.
Anecdote:
The Mining Company started an operation in the Diamond mine. Before starting the operation, the owner of the company visited the site of Diamond mine and satisfied himself that there was an abundant wealth of diamond inside the mine. He was very happy. He gave his final nod to start the operation immediately.
Many days, many months and many years were passed. The Mining Company spent millions of dollars for the operation. But there was no sight of any diamond inside the mine. All the engineers, workers, company’s staff and managers got deserted. They all lost their patience. They started believing that there was nothing inside the mine.
They informed to the owner of the company that there was no sight of any diamond accepts hard rocks and sands inside the mine. They suggested that it was useless to continue the operation for just mere hard rocks and sands.
Finally, the owner of the company sold the mine to another company. Another company just started the operation for a few days and got the sparkling diamonds of millions of dollars worth.
Always remember:
The taste of patience is the sweetest in the world.
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8
Keep Your Will Power Strong
To achieve anything big in your life, you need strong will power. Your will power is the driving force for you to achieve your desired goal. Without willpower, you can’t move for a second.
It is your will power that gives you requires energy and force to move ahead in your life. It is your strong will power that changes you forever.
If you’ve strong will power within yourself, you can do anything in your life; you can achieve anything in your life. Nobody can stop you. Nothing is impossible for you. You will become the master of everything.
If you’ve strong will power, you can move away the giant mountain from your way. Even you can build a bridge over the sea.
With strong willpower,
Lame can walk.
With strong willpower,
Dumb can talk.
With strong willpower,
Deaf can hear.
With strong willpower,
Impossible become possible.
Anecdote:
One day a young man was met with a terrible road accident. He was admitted to the hospital in critical condition. His two legs were completely crushed under the speeding car. Somehow he was saved, but his two legs were cut off. His entire family was shocked. They thought that how could a young man survive without legs. His fast friends started avoiding him. Even his beloved was behaving as same as his friends.
But the young man was made with strong will power. He vowed to himself that he would do something great that no man with legs would do in his life.
He appended his two legs with the artificial legs. Then he joined in the field of athletic. His dream was to become the fastest man on earth in the field of athletic.
After many years sheer dedications, tiresome practices and sacrifices, he finally achieved his goal.
Always remember:
Your willpower is the driving force of your success.
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9
Try Again and Again
It is always not possible to accomplish anything in the first attempt for everyone. It is impossible. Nobody becomes a master in one day. Nobody becomes a winner in one game. Nobody can do anything in one single move. To become a master of something one has to try again and again. To become a winner in every game, one has to try again and again.
You can’t break a hard stone in your first strike. But you’ve to strike it numerous times and strike it again and again. Then you will see at one time, it will break into thousands of pieces in one of the final strikes of yours.
Anecdote:
Once upon in an ancient time, a boy named Vadaraj was sent to gurukul (school in ancient time) to get an education. He belonged to a rich family. His father was one of the richest men in his place.
Vadaraj was not interested in his studies. Even he didn’t know himself what his likes were and what his dislikes were. He was not only weak in his studies but also weak in everything. He couldn’t remember his lesson. So he failed in his every exam.
Vadaraj studied in the same class for many years. His classmates have completed their educations and returned home. But he was studying in the same class where he was first admitted. His gurus were very upset and disappointed with him. They tried every possible means to teach him well. However, he couldn’t read and couldn’t write.
Then one day his gurus called him and asked him to return home. Vadaraj didn’t speak anything. He silently bowed down his head and headed to home.
He walked slowly and slowly. He saw darkness in his life. He didn’t understand what he would do. He didn’t know how he could return home. He didn’t know what he would reply when his father asks him. There was complete darkness engulfed in front of his eyes. He halted his footsteps. He was feeling very hungry and thirsty. His guru had given him some food stuff to eat on the way. He stopped at the well in the roadside to quench his thirst. When he tried to draw the water from the well, he saw a deep mark on the hard concrete wall of a well by the rope due to a regular drawing of water. All of a sudden his mind hit with a brilliant thought. His mind asked him that if a small rope could make a deep mark on the hard concrete wall of a well then why not he would learn his lesson while trying continuously.
Vadaraj’s mind was changed. He was no lazier in his move. He didn’t return to his home. But he returned to his gurukul with determining mind. When his gurus saw him returning, they were very surprised. They asked him why he was returned. He told them everything. He promised them that he would study his lesson very well. His gurus agreed and allowed him to rejoin in the gurukul.
Vadaraj studied his lessons day and night. He didn’t waste his time on any other things. He worked very hard. Then he was no more weak in his studies. He understood his lessons very easily. He could read and write his lessons. Gradually, he became one of the brilliant students in the gurukul. He passed his every exam with flying colours and completed his education.
Later, when he grew up, Vadaraj became one of the greatest scholars in the Sanskrit language.
Always remember:
Winners always try again and again.
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10
Be Positive
Always be positive in your every approach. Never allow any negative thoughts in your mind. Negative thoughts are like thieves. They steal your positive things and make you deserted and ruin your entire life.
Positive things make you the best person. But negative things make you the worst person. There is a great impact of both positive things and negative things in your life.
Always think positive things. Always see positive things. Always do positive things. Only positive things can bring you happiness, success and prosperities in your life.
Positive means your success.
Negative means your failures.
Positive means your happiness.
Negative means your sorrows.
Positive means your friends.
Negative means your enemy.
Never ever try to be the part of negative; it will ruin your beautiful life. Always try to be the part of positive; it will mend your life.
Anecdote:
In a small town, two brothers were living. Their father was once killed in an encounter with the police when they were merely a small kid. Their father was a very noble man but he was falsely charged as a convict in one of the crimes in the town.
After the incident, their family was banished from the town. They went in another town, but wherever they went the dark sin of their father chased them. The people refused to give them any shelter.
Their mother worked very hard for their upbringing. Both the brothers were admitted in good schools and colleges. Later, the elder brother became the famous police officer and the younger brother became the most wanted criminal.
Always remember:
There is a great impact of both positive things and negative things in your life.
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11
Be Brave
Always be brave in your life. For a brave man, nothing is impossible. He can do anything in his life. He can achieve any height in his life. A brave man never runs away from the hard task of his life. He always faces with a brave heart. In every juncture of his life, he is ever ready to face any challenge. A brave man likes to accept death, but he never ready to surrender.
For a brave man, the hallmark is his tremendous heroism. He can overcome any tough situation in his life. That’s why a brave is always remembered as the great hero. Even a brave man died physically, but he will always remain as the greatest inspirations in the lives of people.
A brave man is a king.
He is like the lion.
He is like the giant mountain.
He is like the hard rock.
He is always ready to face any challenge.
He never accepts any defeat.
Anecdote:
Lakshmibai was only a girl, but she was very courageous. She didn’t like to play like other girls of her age. She took a keen interest in practising sword fighting with her brothers and other soldiers. Her most favourite sport was horse racing and showing her heroism. She defeated her brothers in sword fighting and horse racing. She was best of all in everything. She was the true soldier. Nobody could defeat her easily.
Her mother didn’t like her boyish like activities. But her father encouraged her a lot. He treated her like his son.
When Lakshmibai was grown up she got married to the king, Gangadhar Rao, who was much older than her. After marriage, she became a mother of a boy child. Unfortunately, the boy died very soon. The king Gangadhar Rao couldn’t bear that tragedy and he also died after some time. Before his dead, Lakshmibai and Gangadhar Rao adopted a son from their closest kin.
During that time, the British were ruling all over India. The British didn’t recognise the adopted son of Lakshmibai and Gangadhar Rao as the legal heir of their kingdom. The British seized the kingdom of Gangadhar Rao under the policy of doctrine of lapse.
But Lakshmibai didn’t surrender her kingdom to the British. She revolted against them. She started ruling her kingdom herself. There were many battles and wars fought between Lakshmibai and the British.
In every battle and war, Lakshmibai showed her great heroism. She fought the battle carrying her child on her back. Alas! She was defeated at the hands of British at the end.
But she never surrendered herself and her kingdom before the British as long as she was survived. She died while fighting against the British.
Always remember:
For a brave man, the hallmark is his tremendous heroism.
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