A Passive dream
Hello all, this is my first post on Matrubharti and I hope you like it constructive criticism is very much welcome.
Dreams! Who doesn’t know about dreams? Some people see dreams while sleeping and some people see dreams with their eyes open means day dreaming. When we see dreams in sleep some dreams are remembered some not after waking up. Well this is normal category of dreams. Why people do see dreams with open eyes? Well some see dreams which they know never going to be realities and some see dreams with open eyes because they want that turn in to realities. Well! Well! Well! Just watching dreams it is not going to turn into realities.
I was watching Hollywood movies a Moving romance. No I am not going write about movie story and all but a word which inspired me to write this article. There was one scene where both lead were having heated arguments during fights female lead used word passive dreams from that time I just want to write my thoughts on this.
Male lead was intelligent and topper in his school and college days. He wanted to be lawyer and his result are distinction but sadly he was working at Moving and Carriers Company where female lead’s father was owner. His result and degree was in his drawer like any other papers. His dream to be a top lawyer but sadly, He never take that action. Just grade and dreams won’t make you successful in real life.
Many toppers do mistake that they think their grade will make them successful and just dream about being successful and many last bencher or lower graded students or drop out students are not only successful and rich but they lead those toppers.
The reason is we see dream. In our mind dreams are active. It motions as per our wish but reality is something different actually totally opposite. Our dream in reality is passive. Just thinking in mind that what was want and how it needs active action not passive action.
Let see an example, Rima wants to be a great chef and want to be famous and household name. It is her dream. From morning to night she just day dream how she will be famous one day and will meet successful people and everyone will invite her and she will be in page 3. She always dreams this and thinks that it will turn out be true why because she is thinking. She fails to understand that just dreaming she won’t be famous. For that she has to come out from her dreamland and start acting. She needs to be hard plus smart working and start to be active. Just sitting in kitchen and looking at ingredient of your dish and dream that it will be prepared by itself than you are doing everything wrong. To make dish delicious and famous you have to wake up from your daydreaming and use your techniques to complete that dreams.
This is just one example you will have many more example around you or within you too.
No I am not saying you to not to dream ever but dream without action is like body without soul, Cars without fuel. If only dreaming you will achieve whatever you want than today millions people would have been successful and rich. Because everyday millions people do see dream and day dreaming.
Yes there is difference between dreaming and daydreaming and many people do is taken just dreaming. Many inspirational and motivational books claim that things will happen the way you think but they fail to read between the lines that sub-conscious mind will get inspire while dreaming and thinking big but our conscious mind needs active action to complete those dreams. To become a dream come true you need to take action. Not only action but proper action with proper planning is needed.
Dreams are starting point but it needs push like will power, discipline, action, motivation, belief and passion. There are many other factors too. From dreaming and your achievement all these factors are chain to complete that.
Look at successful people they are always active and they do dream, make vision, mission and do planning but always grounded to reality and achieve what they want. It is not like that they never fail but they never give up on their dreams and always believe in them.
You will meet many people in your life who want to be successful and if they don’t get successful they started to blame their destiny, fate and say successful people is lucky and I am unlucky and all that but they fail to understand that it is not luck but their action and dedication made them successful.
So in future if you see dream to be successful don’t forget to be keep dedication, discipline, action and motivation to take with that dream. It is like team work with missing anything will stop you to be a successful.
So friends just don’t dream passive but act on that dream.
I hope it will help you to make things clear.
