10 signs you’re in a relationship with someone who needs constant validation: 1. They create a spectacle This is a strong sign that someone’s using you for validation: they only want to show off their perfect relationship in public. In private, they might change their attitude or not even express any signs of affection towards you. 2. You have to praise them all the time When someone seeks constant validation, they will always want to be complimented and appreciated on their terms. 3. They give a lot of importance to status People who are very insecure and need tons of