responsiveness is alivenessWhen difficult life experiences can bring the best out of ourselves, expands our mind and heart, it shows we are the leader of our life.On the other hand, if life challenges turn us sour and hard hearted, CONTRACT our mind and heart, we can easily get into "narrow mindedness". We then put filters and boundaries for safety. We will not be touched by life then. We are not alive.If the weak fearful person is power hungry, they get into all kinds of deception and trickery, very dangerous, harmful to self and others.Only a strong person has the capability