I, Shamim Merchant, author of this article and many previous to this, have always been a very timid girl all my life. In addition to this, growing up in a large joint family, many a times we lose our identity or become a shadow of a more dominant member in the house. Throughout my education and career, I haven't scored or progressed in flying colours. So basically, I have been an average girl. Having said that, howbeit the important factor is, that in spite of being an average person, I'm happy in my own sphere and doing what I love to